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 Post subject: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. Help?
PostPosted: Mon May 23, 2011 6:25 am 
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Hi everyone!

I'm new to the lifestyle and the site, and I've always liked the idea of being dolled up, played with and owned. I'm not as hardcore as some of you, but I like the concept and want to have an owner.

My dilemma is that I'm already in a serious relationship. My significant knows about my bizarre fetishes, and he tries to please me, but knowing him, I just couldn't get lost in the fantasy. I know he's only doing it because I want him too, not because he enjoys it.

My questions is:
1. Is it ok to look for an owner while you're in a relationship?
2. How big of a factor is sex in the doll/owner relationship?
3. Are there any "long distance" owner/doll relationships?

PS: I can't seem to view photos attached to the site.


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 Post subject: Re: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. He
PostPosted: Mon May 23, 2011 3:44 pm 
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Surely these are questions only you can answer for yourself?


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 Post subject: Re: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. He
PostPosted: Tue May 24, 2011 11:25 am 
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Hi,

I'm close to Marcus:

1.) high risk; I can only imagine it as feasible, if your significant (or the owner) is cuckold-ish,
i.e. gets his pleasure from knowing you are controlled (or f*cked) by someone else;
you might have luck, but it's high risk!

2.) A doll might be forced to live chaste (hardcore: wearing a chastity belt, the owner is the keyholder),
but this is also talking about (denied) sex.
Harry (from "when Harry met Sally") said: "a man and a woman can't be friends, without sex getting in the way", and he is right ...

3.) (don't know)

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 Post subject: Re: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. He
PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 1:33 am 
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LittleMsHissy wrote:
Hi everyone!

My questions is:
1. Is it ok to look for an owner while you're in a relationship?
2. How big of a factor is sex in the doll/owner relationship?
3. Are there any "long distance" owner/doll relationships?



1. Only if the person you are in a seious relationship with has full knowledge that you are looking and consents to it, otherwise it's called cheating ;)

2. That depends on the two parties involved - some have no sexual element in the relationship, others have a lot.

3. I would assume so as there is every other kind of long distance relationship.

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 Post subject: Re: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. He
PostPosted: Mon Sep 17, 2018 12:41 pm 
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1) yes, but full disclosure if probably a good idea
2) depends on the relationship. Everyone is different and often times intercourse isn't required to make it sexually fullfilling
3) Sure, plenty of people do pen pal versions and/or voice/video chat. You could even buy clothes and makeup and send them to a doll and ask for pictures of what they look like wearing it. The possibilities are endless


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 Post subject: Re: Wishing for an owner while in a serious relationship. He
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I suppose you have to choose between doing what is right for you or waht is right for him. The honest thing would be to either tell him what you are doing before you do it or end the relationship before you start a new one. In the end nobody is 100% honest so you have to decide how honest you want to be.

Some people can have an almost normal relationship without sex but for most it does not work without it. I think it is the same for a doll/dollmaker relationship that most wants sex but there are always some exceptions.

A long distance relationship might work out for a start. At least you will learn if being a doll is what you really want. However I guess that sooner or later you would get bored of it and would prefer to meet and being a doll for real. Maybe you could open up on this forum and tell us a bit more about why you would like to be a doll and what you enjoy most in being a doll? What kind of doll would you like to be?


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